Buying A New House... Need Some Advice, Please!

For me, choosing to buy a house over just renting and investing your money through other means is just a preference and belief that that is what is best for you. There are too many variables at work to say one way is better than the other. Rather than enslave yourself to a mortgage, you could use your money to buy a business and who knows what the outcome could be.. Could go broke or end up a millionaire.

I have always been irritated by the talk about renting and "just throwing your money away". That is nonsense.

Nontheless, I just took the plunge and bought a house this week largely because Im just sick of the lifestyle of renting and having to deal with a landlord. With home ownership, I haven't even moved in yet and already I see the costs piling up. Land transfer tax, lawyer fees, added insurance, home inspection, not to mention all the minor issues in the house that I will need to address ($)..Then there is the silly amount of interest that I will be paying on the mortgage, even at todays very low rates.

Of yeah, when I end up selling this thing, Im going to have to pay these scumbag real estate agents ridiculous money too. Already I miss renting!
 
Of course you paid the agent when you bought the house. Every dollar you spent a portion went to your agent's pocket...the fact that the seller only pays is BS because the buyer's money is the one that pays the commission...not arguing just a fact. And yes you can negotiate, my sister also had a ******** agent who didn't do much to sell the house, then when they threatened her with firing her if she doesn't get it sold the house got sold in 2 days...the agent is there to look out for THEIR OWN best interest, which is financial. Yes, there are great agents out there, I've just not found one that's more interested in helping me find a home than filling their own pocket with my money.

I see the way you view it and yes you are correct.

On another note we looked at quite a few homes that were listed Comfree and Flat Free and they were all grossly over priced. You would think the seller since they are not paying commission would lesson the price to reflect that but nope they are just trying to be stingy.
 
I see the way you view it and yes you are correct.

On another note we looked at quite a few homes that were listed Comfree and Flat Free and they were all grossly over priced. You would think the seller since they are not paying commission would lesson the price to reflect that but nope they are just trying to be stingy.

I actually tried the COMFREE route as well...but the owners think they're houses are gold and people will pay. Perfect example in my neighborhood, guy listed his house near the lake...good size lot...****** house...looks like ****** reno...****** exterior...and a 10deg view of the lake for $1M 2-3 months ago. Then it dropped to $970k, then $950k, then $930k, then $900k, now it's on for...$880k...the view is NOT exceptional but it can be nice. He tried to rent it out for $3k/month previously but no takers. This neighborhood has gone bananas recently. 600sqft unfinished bungalows are going for $430k+ (asking price was $380k 3 weeks ago, sold in 4 days) on a 25x115 lot with no garage, no driveway, and a small parking pad...ridiculous. This is the house (http://comfree.com/2-storey-for-sale-etobicoke-ontario-411661). I don't blame the owners for trying to get top dollar for their properties, but in that neighborhood brand new homes (on a split plot) have gone for $800k. So this guy's out to lunch considering someone will most likely demolish and rebuild. EDIT: Sorry last point in my little rent, the majority of the homes in this neighborhood are being snapped up by developers / professional or part time flippers and then resold. I'm seeing construction on all the streets on at least 1 home.
 
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Nontheless, I just took the plunge and bought a house this week largely because Im just sick of the lifestyle of renting and having to deal with a landlord. With home ownership, I haven't even moved in yet and already I see the costs piling up. Land transfer tax, lawyer fees, added insurance, home inspection, not to mention all the minor issues in the house that I will need to address ($)..Then there is the silly amount of interest that I will be paying on the mortgage, even at todays very low rates.

My insurance only went up 50% when I switched from tenant insurance with a $20K cap to owners with $1M, they said owners take better care and are less likely to claim.
 
Been hearing it since 2008.


I guess blowing my money on rent (approx $60 000) since then would have been better?

If you do the math and wait another 5,10, 15 years you'll probably see that you would have been better off renting. Its very difficult to convince someone of this once they purchased a home and they're defending their position, but numbers don't lie in the end. Whats going on with the current house prices will come to an end, it ALWAYS does, this time isn't different.

Also add up how much interest you paid, property taxes and other maintenance since 2008. Im willing to bet you're going to come up with OVER 60K, and thats money that you will never get back, just like renting.

Hard to say. If there is a house for $560k and we put the 60k towards a downpayment instead, we now have a mortgage of:
$500k

If we are lucky enough to get a 3% avg mortgage for 25 years (avg has historically been 6-7% I think) the costs would be:
$3k monthly (mortgage+property tax+HO insurance)
$200k in interest paid at the end of 25 years
$50-100k on repairs/upgrades over the course of owning the home

So total cost for this house after 25 years is approximately
$860k

Renting at the rate you suggested for 25 years you would have a cost of
$375K

That leaves the Renter with $485k they can put towards investments over the Homeowner. These investments may rise or fall, but so can house prices. It's a crap shoot for both really. The major advantage for the Renter though is that his money is liquid, if his investments start falling he can switch them over to something else in a matter of minutes. The Homeowner on the other hand will have a much tougher time convincing a buyer to take the house when prices are falling. If the Homeowner can afford to keep the house during the price declines then he is fine, no real loss is had until he sells. The worry is that because house prices have been going up so much compared to incomes, when mortgage rates increase the Homeowner may not be able to afford his monthly payments and will be forced to sell at a loss.

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Also what happens when you get sick, lose your job or a million other things that can possibly go wrong and now you can't pay your bills?
In a country where 40% of people live paycheck to paycheck you don't have many options.

I'm gonna make this post short.

Couple of things:

1. You're comparing $1000 a month rented apartment to a 500k house?
2. Why not buy a cheaper house, who tells you to buy a 500k house?
3. Why pay for 25 years, when you can pay it off earlier? (if you can't pay it off earlier you should be in a cheaper house)
4. Yes, I'm sure most renters save up all the money they can just to invest, which by the way is no sure thing either.
5. Unknown future- I'm not sure what my house will be worth then as you won't know what your stocks will be worth.
6. Known future- I will be living in my paid off house, while you will be renting where and for how much?

1. You don't have to rent an apartment, you can rent a condo, house, whatever your heart desires. If the price goes up you can pack up and move. Not so easy with a house. 1300-1400 you can get a nice condo or upper level of a house.

2. Are you aware of the average price of a house in toronto? :lmao:

3. Good luck with that, most people are broke month to month trying to pay it off at 25 years.

4. Nobody saves up all of it because life happens. Cars break down, people get sick/injured and might be off work etc.. The difference is when you're renting you have money saved up and can deal with these issues. Most people who own homes dont have that buffer.

5. That is true, only difference is you have ALL of your money in one place. If you know anything about investing this is a big no no. Also you're paying hundreds of thousands of dollars of interest on your "investment", usually thats not how investing works :lmao:

6. Your paid off house will cost you so much in the end if you actually do manage to pay it off that it wont even be funny.
If you looked at the numbers yourself and realized how much money you're really losing you'd change your mind.
BTW i used to be like you since thats the mentality of most people. However i got sick and tired of the conflicting opinions and sat down one day with a pen, paper and a calculator. I now see it for what it is. Do the same and learn something.

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Sure you could. And that's an entire mortgage payment that's going down the tubes rather than going towards your equity. Unless renting a house is substantially cheaper (I'm sure some would argue that it is anyways), then it doesn't seem worth it IMO.

Have you looked at what percentage of that mortgage payment is actually going towards your house vs interest?
Dont forget to add in property tax, which you will never get back as well.
^ this.

I would rather pay mortgage than pay rent..... if I had the choice/ability. I'm getting married at the end of the year. If we don't find a place, I have 3-6 months rent on standby for additional time if needed. If not, that'll be additional track/race fees for 2014 :P

So you'd rather pay $1000+ in interest a month, plus another $300 in property taxes, pay for maintenance (roof, furnace, water heater etc) and have all of your money in one thing?

Real estate is always considered as one of the best investment. But one must have knowledge about various facts related with it. If you want to buy new house you can take help of real estate agent.

Real estate is not an investment. Its a place to live.

For me, choosing to buy a house over just renting and investing your money through other means is just a preference and belief that that is what is best for you. There are too many variables at work to say one way is better than the other. Rather than enslave yourself to a mortgage, you could use your money to buy a business and who knows what the outcome could be.. Could go broke or end up a millionaire.

I have always been irritated by the talk about renting and "just throwing your money away". That is nonsense.

Nontheless, I just took the plunge and bought a house this week largely because Im just sick of the lifestyle of renting and having to deal with a landlord. With home ownership, I haven't even moved in yet and already I see the costs piling up. Land transfer tax, lawyer fees, added insurance, home inspection, not to mention all the minor issues in the house that I will need to address ($)..Then there is the silly amount of interest that I will be paying on the mortgage, even at todays very low rates.

Of yeah, when I end up selling this thing, Im going to have to pay these scumbag real estate agents ridiculous money too. Already I miss renting!

Agree with you there. Most people fail to see both sides and instead make a choice and then feel the need to defend their choice rather than admit that perhaps there is another, better way.
 
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Dude, having both been renting and now own my house north of GTA, there is some things you cant put money on.

Having your own home is one of those things. By far happiness ratio i'd own a home. No doubt about it.

I love the talk of "not making financial sense" coming from a group of people who own, insure and register a fair weather leisurely vehicle used 6 months a year. Whats the ROI on that??

I agree with crazy house prices in GTA, but its not like renting is any cheaper.

I think there is something in the water in Toronto when these people pay $500K for a shed. Absolute insanity.
 

I've actually seen this more and more on mls.ca. Typically a house will get listed with a photograph, but then there will be the identical listing with a different MLS number, but no photograph. House gets sold, 2 houses sold! Hooray! Honestly the more and more I research and read and look into the housing market and the real estate industry the more crap I find. Now 2 houses sold equals a greater number of homes sold, meaning the 'demand and resale' numbers are up creating a panic in people on the fence, and this drives up prices making the realtors more $. I'm glad my deal fell apart because from what I'm reading indicators are showing an uptick in interest rates, and studies show many homeowners are 1-2% away from not being able to afford housing, meaning that prices may actually stabilize, or actually drop. If a realtor tells you 'we need to bid higher than asking because of this and this offer on the table' don't do it. Just like the banks they're playing with YOUR money. They get a commission, and you're stuck with a house you may or may not afford.
 
I think there is something in the water in Toronto when these people pay $500K for a shed. Absolute insanity.

I bid on a house in Mimico in the spring...opening bid was $360k, I bid $380k...selling price after 38 bids was $501k. The house had no water, bathrooms torn out, nice yard for the street (Superior Ave.) for a 700sqft (being optimistic here) shack. I drove by a few days ago out of curiosity, the house had lights on but absolutely zero work being done on the exterior. My preliminary estimate was that it would require 50k just to be livable. 80k if you want a nice home.
 
I see the way you view it and yes you are correct.

On another note we looked at quite a few homes that were listed Comfree and Flat Free and they were all grossly over priced. You would think the seller since they are not paying commission would lesson the price to reflect that but nope they are just trying to be stingy.

Overall the last several weeks in my house shopping, I found the exact same thing. The comfree homes were priced the same as the agent listed ones and I suspect the owners would be a bit tougher in negotiating considering that they are the type of people that choose to bypass an agent in order to save money already.
 
Real estate is not an investment. Its a place to live.

If Real Estate is not an investment, who the **** are you paying rent to?

Here's a real life scenario for you.
36 houses bought in the late 1970's / early 1980's.
Not one cost over $12,000.
All 36 were sold ~ 2003 - 2005.
Not one sold for less than $160,000.
More were sold > $200,000 than under $200K.
Try making that kind of money with GIC's, or your "sure thing" in financial investing.
 
Dude, having both been renting and now own my house north of GTA, there is some things you cant put money on.

Having your own home is one of those things. By far happiness ratio i'd own a home. No doubt about it.

I love the talk of "not making financial sense" coming from a group of people who own, insure and register a fair weather leisurely vehicle used 6 months a year. Whats the ROI on that??

I agree with crazy house prices in GTA, but its not like renting is any cheaper.

I think there is something in the water in Toronto when these people pay $500K for a shed. Absolute insanity.

I agree with you that owning a house has its benefits, but you cant argue with the numbers.

Also you're comparing a 6-7k bike + 700$ insurance vs 500k house, 4k property tax, and a couple hundred thousand dollars interest. Hardly the same thing
 
If Real Estate is not an investment, who the **** are you paying rent to?

Here's a real life scenario for you.
36 houses bought in the late 1970's / early 1980's.
Not one cost over $12,000.
All 36 were sold ~ 2003 - 2005.
Not one sold for less than $160,000.
More were sold > $200,000 than under $200K.
Try making that kind of money with GIC's, or your "sure thing" in financial investing.

Yup that was a good time to buy. Unfortunately many of us were born in a different time so pricing is considerably greater than 12k/house. You just can't do that as a 'normal' person nowadays. The banks are cracking down on investment properties (30% down anyone? 20% if you're not primary resident with shorter amortization rates). My agent (at one point) lends money privately to investors for short term interest only loans at 6%...that's how he makes his money. Also has a ton of properties that he flips 'for fun' because he's got too much money to know what to do with. That's who is buying all these properties. Anyway I'm done my rant, sorry guys. Mortgage broker just called and said rates are going down on a 5 year fixed.
 
Also you're comparing a 6-7k bike + 700$ insurance vs 500k house, 4k property tax, and a couple hundred thousand dollars interest. Hardly the same thing

This is the GTA....bikes don't lose value, they only increase in time.
 
Hardly?! You spend a few hours on that bike a week, you spend 50% of your day at home. That bike is worth 50% of its value after a few years, the upkeep cost and insurance per hour spent on the bike is astronomical if you really sit down and crunch numbers.

In the end, with historically low interest rates now, why would you pay someone elses mortgage?

Keep trying to make yourself believe that owning a house is idiotic....but dont try and push that **** on the rest of people here.

You know anyone who bought a house, said "naaah, i rather like renting more" sold it and went back to renting unless that person was forced by mitigating circumstances or in the belief that selling the house and "roughing it" would allow him to buy a similar house for cheaper due to market fluctuations?

You already know the answer deep down in your heart.

I agree with you that owning a house has its benefits, but you cant argue with the numbers.

Also you're comparing a 6-7k bike + 700$ insurance vs 500k house, 4k property tax, and a couple hundred thousand dollars interest. Hardly the same thing
 
If Real Estate is not an investment, who the **** are you paying rent to?

Here's a real life scenario for you.
36 houses bought in the late 1970's / early 1980's.
Not one cost over $12,000.
All 36 were sold ~ 2003 - 2005.
Not one sold for less than $160,000.
More were sold > $200,000 than under $200K.
Try making that kind of money with GIC's, or your "sure thing" in financial investing.

No doubt there is a good return there, but You won't see those same non-inflation adjusted returns in today's market.
 
No doubt there is a good return there, but You won't see those same non-inflation adjusted returns in today's market.

That's exactly what's been said.............forever, yet prices keep going up & up & up.
20 yrs ago, there was no such thing as "bidding wars" for a home. Now, there is story after story of a home being sold above its listing price.
 
Yup that was a good time to buy. Unfortunately many of us were born in a different time so pricing is considerably greater than 12k/house. You just can't do that as a 'normal' person nowadays. The banks are cracking down on investment properties (30% down anyone? 20% if you're not primary resident with shorter amortization rates). My agent (at one point) lends money privately to investors for short term interest only loans at 6%...that's how he makes his money. Also has a ton of properties that he flips 'for fun' because he's got too much money to know what to do with. That's who is buying all these properties. Anyway I'm done my rant, sorry guys. Mortgage broker just called and said rates are going down on a 5 year fixed.

It still exists in our current market just not as much in the city. Bought an old cottage just south of Barrie. Renovated and lived in it for 10 years. I paid cash for everything including the original purchase of the house. Sold last month for a 100k profit after renos and the cost of the house. Effectively it cost me $800 a year in residential taxes and utilities. To me that made more sense then renting.

I was 21 when I purchased it worked 2 jobs through school then in a trade to build the capital to purchase. I had been essentially homeless since 16 which has taught me you are getting nothing for free. If you want something bad enough you need to go out and get it.
 
If Real Estate is not an investment, who the **** are you paying rent to?

Here's a real life scenario for you.
36 houses bought in the late 1970's / early 1980's.
Not one cost over $12,000.
All 36 were sold ~ 2003 - 2005.
Not one sold for less than $160,000.
More were sold > $200,000 than under $200K.
Try making that kind of money with GIC's, or your "sure thing" in financial investing.

Thats not a typical result, since the average prices back then were not 12,000 but rather around the 60,000$ mark.

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Thats like me saying that you could have simply left that 12,000 in the bank with a gic for 10 years, doubled your cash, now taken that 24,000 put it in td canadian bond for the next 24 years effectively cashing out with 96,000 $ and then buying up google at $100 in 2004 and cashing it out in 2013 for a total of $883,200 :lmao:

Where's your $200,000 now :lmao:

Investing is a piece of cake AFTER the fact, not so much before.



But for the sake of argument lets go with something simple. First 10 years you go with bank account with regular interest or gic. Simple and lazy and not even an investment by and stretch.

$12,000 into 24,000 by 1990. In 1990 you put it all into td canadian bond, today it would be worth $144,000. Now subtract all the property tax, maintenance on your scenario. Who's better off now?

Now for apples to apples comparison.

Average price in 1980 was 60k. As per my chart it was roughly 375,000 in 2012. Lets say 450,00, hell even 500 today.

Vs

Take that same 60k leave in lazy account for 10 years, then dump it in a bond till today and voila you've got yourself $720,000.
Once gain take away all your property tax, maintenance etc..

Real estate such a great investment still?
 
That's actually a great investment rbjeepthing, congrats. The city can't take anymore so the outlying areas are going to take the overflow slowly. Even with the new GO train extensions, as well as the TTC building further out there will be money to be made, just in a different region. I got lucky a few years ago buying a small investment property. Originally I was terrified and still repaying my parents for helping me but it's been a great investment and I plan on holding it for a while. One of my neighbours gave up flipping in the GTA and now does it in Woodstock and Cambridge. Says there's tons of money to be made there but I don't have the start up capital, which is the only thing stopping me.
 
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