Zoodles95 - very similar gear and mindset tho I will go shirt and Tshirt on a hot day riding casually.
Does mesh work? It has for me off road. Some falls felt like landing on a pillow - usually near zero speed on a muddy hill. Certainly was fine on the faster come off last spring - the impact left me with a persistently sore shoulder to date but the jacket took it all fine.
Nylon pants wore through but the hard armor stopped all.
Here is a good article with pics
the one that seemed clearest....same brand of JR Jacket as mine but mesh does not look quite as substantial as mine.
In July 2011 Tracy Bader crashed in Montana. Riding at 110kph/65mph her V-Star’s brake line kinked, locking up the front brake. She endo’d, landing on her head, rolling a couple of times before sliding in a semi-sitting position. The bike skidded for 14 ft and then slid an additional 156 ft. Tracy slid on the road for 160 ft. Tracy received road rash on her left forearm and hands, and the usual cuts and bruises, but walked away without serious injury. Banged up she is, but without mesh gear she would have done far worse. Her Joe Rocket Cleo jacket’s armour protected her. The mesh abraded but did not melt.
http://dontai.com/wp/2010/06/03/does-motorcycle-mesh-gear-melt-in-a-crash/
My only issue with mesh jackets is the armor does not always sit tight to the body depending on your layering so I've got an armored shirt now that always fits close to the protection areas and wear it either alone or under the JR Mesh.
It's one reason I prefer knee armor separate from pants armor. It protects the joint and stays tight to it....I can also vary my riding pants from light nylon which I will ride in tomorrow to stay cool to full mesh overpants which are "okay" as far as cool goes but a bit heavy/bulky even with the knee armor out and using the Fox knee armor.
Mesh aint' a sweater and in my view is the only option in the heat here in tropical Australia where 80% of the riders on road are in shorts.....a few with motorcycle jackets.
I like that mesh can be layered so with a liner and a rain jacket I'm good as low as 8 degrees in the rain ( was a miserable ride back from PA )
Past 30, humid and riding in low or no traffic - I'll lose all but helmet and ride in shorts and shirt - my skin...still intact 45 years of riding tho a few winter storms in university provided some inadvertent tobogganing with the bike on ice.
The knee armor is so light I don't really feel it on under light pants so why not and it take seconds on and off.
Mesh JR jacket was $50 used and held up for last 6 years. Wear a ballistic long jacket with a full liner for under 10 degrees but just got a battery powered vest I like better.
I have mesh gloves for Aus but the knuckles are full hard armor and some protection on the palm tho I'd not want to trust it for a road spill....it's designed for dirt.
Riding in the GTA???....Sherman tank might suffice....results may vary.
Buy what you will wear.
Kid goes mesh armor shirt and knee armor and very good gloves most times - jacket and pants are just for warmth.
In my view helmet, gloves, boots, joint armor that stays in place, are the areas to concentrate on in that order.
Jacket and pants material??...what you will tolerate.
Hell there are lots of us still riding that could legally do and did the QEW in swim gear and sunglasses.....barefoot.
That was a while back.
