Okay, I have answered all my questions.
First, the 30205J is not a replacement for the 30205/P6 -- the J is larger. If any one needs the 30205J, let me know I have four of them.
Secondly, I found a 27mm socket in my toolbox that I have for an axle nut or something, and it lines up almost perfectly with the outer ring of the bearing -- I wanted to avoid putting any force on the inner ring of the bearing to avoid damaging it. So I wrapped a shop cloth over the socket, lined it up on the bearing outer ring and a couple good hits from a mallet popped the bearing and seal right out with no apparent damage to either of them.
I don't think I have any need to take the race out... so I will leave that for another day.
Tomorrow I have to pick up cleaner to remove the old crap, repack, and reinstall.
As for bearing buddies... I could not find a set that fit right. The size that should have fit are the 1.98" ones, but the set I had from Princess Auto were loose... so loose I could pull them off the hub with my hand -- easily -- so they would have disappeared on my somewhere down the road. I guess Harbor Freight uses an odd hub on their trailers. Oh... and both inner and outer bearings on this trailer are identical. 30205/P6