In my experience, the opinion of another rider is a poor guide to a comfortable jacket. If a jacket is not comfortable, I am not going to wear it. I suggest you hand your helmet or keys to someone in the store and explain that you are going to try on jackets, and probably walk around the store in your favourite one for ten minutes, including some time sitting on bikes, and then perhaps buy it. I think that an uncomfortable jacket will reveal its problems in ten minutes.
I was lucky. A friend got a terrific deal on a jacket that was OK at first, but proved to be too tight when he actually rode in it. I tried it and liked it, so it is now mine. In exchange I gave him a very fine jacket that was warm and comfortable but my second favourite. We are both happy and comfortable now.
So keep trying on jackets until you find one that you really do not want to take off.
What works for someone else is not likely to be perfect for you; you have to find it yourself.